Summary of Course Curriculum

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  • 1

    Find all the essentials here!

    • Welcome! Here's an orientation to everything you will find in here.

    • Call Schedule and Zoom Link (Mondays and Thursdays)

    • Facebook Group Link

    • Book Reading Schedule

    • Submit Questions for Thursday Q & A Calls

    • Library of Resources

    • Video: How to Document Sessions for Graduation

    • Video: Creating an Electronic Client Intake Form
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    Week 1 - Orientation and Intentions

    • Week 1 - Training Replay

    • Week 1 Slides

    • Begin with Being Exercise

    • Homeplay - Week 1

    • Week 1 Love Quiz

    • Week 1 - Thursday Q + A Call Replay

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    Week 2 - Moving Beyond Powers Struggles and Relationship Poisons

    • Week 2 - Training Replay

    • Week 2 Slides - full size (option 1)

    • Week 2 Slides - room to write (option 2)

    • 5 Stages of a Thriving Relationship

    • 5 Stages of a Thriving Relationship - Notes for Coaches

    • Formula for Lasting Relationship Growth

    • Universal Human Needs

    • Relationship Poisons

    • Relationship Poisons - Notes for Coaches

    • Blame to Responsibility

    • Homeplay - Week 2

    • Week 2 Love Quiz

    • Week 2 - Thursday Q + A Call Replay

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    Week 3 - How to Listen in a Way that Transforms Communication

    • Week 3 Training Replay

    • Week 3 Slides - full size (option 1)

    • Week 3 Slides - room to write (option 2)

    • Listening Filters

    • HEART Listening

    • HEART Listening - Notes for Coaches

    • HEARTner Exercise

    • HEARTners for the Week

    • Homeplay - Week 3

    • Week 3 Love Quiz

    • Week 3 - Thursday Q + A Call Replay
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    Week 4 - Transforming Repetitive Cycles

    • Week 4 Training Replay

    • Week 4 Slides - full size (option 1)

    • Week 4 Slides - room to write (option 2)

    • Repetitive Cycles

    • HEARTner Exercise

    • HEARTners for the Week

    • Homeplay - Week 4

    • Week 4 - Love Quiz

    • Week 4 - Thursday Q + A Call Replay
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    Week 5 - Cultivating Secure Attachment

    • Week 5 Replay

    • Week 5 Slides - full size (option 1)

    • Week 5 Slides - room to write (option 2)

    • Attachment Theory and Adult Relationships

    • Attachment - Early Imprints

    • Attachment - Raw Spots

    • Attachment - Couples Assessment

    • Attachment Assurances

    • HEARTners for the Week

    • HEARTner Exercise

    • Homeplay - Week 5

    • Week 5 - Love Quiz

    • Week 5 - Thursday Q + A Call Replay
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    Week 6 - Relationship Breakthroughs and Repair

    • Week 6 Training Replay

    • Week 6 Slides - full size (option 1)

    • Week 6 Slides - room to write (option 2)

    • IMPORTANT SURVEY to take this week

    • Attachment - Relationship Traumas

    • Relationship Breakthrough Process

    • Feelings List (to use with Relationship Breakthrough Process)

    • Universal Human Needs (to use with Relationship Breakthrough Process)

    • Homeplay - Week 6

    • Week 6 - Love Quiz
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    Week 7 - Love Languages and Love Accounts

    • Week 7 Training Replay

    • Week 7 Slides - full size (option 1)

    • Week 7 Slides - room to write (option 2)

    • Week 7 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)

    • Superpowered Apology

    • Love Account

    • Love Languages Quiz and Handout

    • Week 7 Reflection (if you prefer answering here instead of on Facebook)

    • Week 7 Q + A Call Replay

    • Week 7 Love Quiz
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    Week 8 - Creating a Connected and Strengths-Based Relationship

    • Week 8 Training Replay

    • Week 8 Slides - full size (option 1)

    • Week 8 Slides - room to write (option 2)

    • Week 8 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)

    • Friends First Cards

    • Small, Medium, and Large Connecting Rituals

    • Date Night Discovery Cards

    • Strengths Based Relationship

    • Superpowered Appreciation

    • Week 8 Reflection Questions

    • Homeplay - Week 8

    • Week 8 Q + A Call Replay

    • Week 8 Love Quiz
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    Week 9 - Essentials for Everyday Communication

    • Week 9 Training Replay

    • Week 9 Slides - full size (option 1)

    • Week 9 Slides - room to write (option 2)

    • Week 9 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)

    • Curiosity Toss

    • Essentials for Everyday Communication

    • Week 9 Reflection Questions

    • Homeplay - Week 9

    • Week 9 Q + A Call Replay

    • Week 9 Love Quiz
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    Week 10 - Building Emotional Intimacy

    • Week 10 Training Replay

    • Week 10 Slides - full size (option 1)

    • Week 10 Slides - room to write (option 2)

    • Week 10 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)

    • Feelings List

    • Creating a Safe Space for Emotional Connection

    • Wants, Fears, + Loves (Exercise for Emotional Intimacy)

    • Relationship Check-In

    • HEARTner Matches - Jan 25

    • HEARTner Exercise - Jan 25

    • Week 10 Reflection Questions

    • Homeplay - Week 10

    • Week 10 Q + A Replay

    • Week 10 Love Quiz
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    Week 11 - Creating Change from Within (Part 1)

    • Week 11 Training Replay

    • Week 11 Slides - full size (option 1)

    • Week 11 Slides - room to write (option 2)

    • Week 11 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)

    • Thought Turnarounds

    • Magic And

    • HEARTner Matches - Feb 1

    • Week 11 Reflection Questions

    • HEARTner Exercise - Feb 1

    • Homeplay - Week 11

    • Week 11 Q + A Call Replay

    • Week 11 Love Quiz
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    Week 12 - Creating Change from Within (Part 2)

    • Week 12 Training Replay

    • Week 12 Slides - full size (option 1)

    • Week 12 Slides - room to write (option 2)

    • Week 12 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)

    • Wheel of Balance

    • Calming Techniques

    • HEARTner Exercise - Feb 8

    • HEARTner Matches - Feb 8

    • Week 12 Reflection Questions

    • Homeplay - Week 12

    • Week 12 Q + A Call Replay

    • Week 12 Love Quiz
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    Week 13 - Healing from Affairs (Part 1)

    • Week 13 Training Replay

    • Week 13 Slides - full size (option 1)

    • Week 13 Slides - room to write (option 2)

    • Week 13 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)

    • Affair Responses - unfaithful partner

    • Affair Responses - hurting partner

    • HEARTner Matches - Feb 15

    • HEARTner Exercise - Feb 15

    • Week 13 Reflection Questions

    • Homeplay - Week 13

    • Week 13 Love Quiz

    • Week 13 Q + A Call Replay
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    Week 14 - Healing from Affairs (Part 2)

    • Week 14 Training Replay

    • Week 14 Slides - full size (option 1)

    • Week 14 Slides - room to write (option 2)

    • Week 14 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)

    • Affairs - Building Trust

    • Affairs - Why They Happen

    • HEARTner Matches - Feb 22

    • HEARTner Exercise - Feb 22

    • Week 14 Reflection Questions

    • Homeplay - Week 14

    • Week 14 Love Quiz

    • Week 14 Q + A Call Replay
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    Week 15 - Sexuality (Part 1)

    • Week 15 Training Replay

    • Week 15 Slides - full size (option 1)

    • Week 15 Slides - room to write (option 2)

    • Week 15 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)

    • Rewriting Sexual Messages

    • Libido Busters and Boosters

    • HEARTner Matches - March 1

    • HEARTner Exercise - March 1

    • Week 15 Reflection Questions

    • Homeplay - Week 15

    • Week 15 Love Quiz

    • Week 15 Q + A Replay
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    Week 16 - Sexuality (Part 2)

    • Week 16 Training Replay

    • Week 16 Slides - full size (option 1)

    • Week 16 Slides - room to write (option 2)

    • Week 16 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)

    • Sexuality - Erotic Maps

    • Sexuality - Menu of Possibilities

    • HEARTner Matches - March 8

    • HEARTner Exercise - March 8

    • Week 16 Reflection Questions

    • Homeplay - Week 16

    • Week 16 Love Quiz

    • Week 16 Q + A Call Replay
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    Week 17 - Helping Couples Create Lasting Love

    • Week 17 Training Replay

    • Week 17 Slides - full size (option 1)

    • Week 17 Slides - room to write (option 2)

    • Week 17 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)

    • Relationship Leaks

    • Time Management Matrix for Relationships

    • Relationship Vision

    • Week 17 Reflection Questions

    • Homeplay - Week 17

    • HEARTner Matches - March 15

    • HEARTner Matches - March 22

    • HEARTner Exercise - March 22

    • Week 17 Love Quiz

    • Week 17 Q + A Call Replay
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    Week 18 - Whole Brain Relationships

    • Week 18 Training Replay

    • Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor - Handouts for Whole Brain Living and Relationships

    • Week 18 Reflection Questions

    • HEARTner Matches - March 29

    • HEARTner Exercise - March 29

    • Homeplay - Week 18

    • Week 18 Love Quiz
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    Week 19 - Bringing it All Together + Cultural Sensitivities

    • Week 19 Training Replay

    • Week 19 Slides - full size (option 1)

    • Week 19 Slides - room to write (option 2)

    • Week 19 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)

    • Example: New Client Intake Form

    • Example: Electronic Client Intake Form

    • Example: Client and Coach Agreements

    • Example: Client Notes

    • Worksheet Checklist

    • Recorded Coaching Session Consent and Release Form

    • HEARTner Matches - April 5

    • HEARTner Exercise - April 5

    • Email/Social Media Post to Recruit Practice Couples

    • Homeplay - Week 19

    • Sample Email to Send New Virtual Clients

    • Week 19 Q + A Call Replay
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    Week 20- with Scott Oldford

    • Week 20 Training Replay - with Scott Oldford

    • HEARTner Matches - April 12

    • HEARTner Exercise - April 12

    • Homeplay - Week 20

    • Week 20 Q+A Call Replay
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    Week 21 - Laying Your Business Foundation

    • Week 21 Training Replay

    • Week 21 Slides - full size (option 1)

    • Week 21 Slides - room to write (option 2)

    • Week 21 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)

    • HEARTner Matches - April 19

    • HEARTner Exercise - April 19

    • Homeplay - Week 21

    • Week 21 Q + A Call Replay
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    Week 22 - Growing Your Audience (Biz Bootcamp)

    • Week 22 Training Replay

    • Week 22 Slides - full size (option 1)

    • Week 22 Slides - room to write (option 2)

    • Week 22 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)

    • HEARTner Matches - April 26

    • HEARTner Exercise - April 26

    • Homeplay - Week 22

    • Week 22 Q + A Call
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    Week 23 - Business Bootcamp

    • Week 23 Training Replay

    • Week 23 Slides - full size (option 1)

    • Week 23 Slides - room to write (option 2)

    • Week 23 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)

    • Homeplay - Week 23

    • Week 23 Q + A Call
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    Weeks 24/25 - Extra Q + A Call Replays

    • Weeks 24 - Q + A Call Replay

    • Week 25 Q + A Call Replay
  • 26

    Graduation Ceremony - YOU DID IT!

    • Graduation Ceremony - Class of 2021!
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    Thriving Relationship Tools + Handouts (easily in one place for you here)

    • 1. Goals that Begin with Being

    • 2. Stages of a Thriving Relationship

    • 3. Formula for Lasting Relationship Growth

    • 4. Blame to Responsibility

    • 5. Relationship Poisons

    • 6. Universal Human Needs

    • 7. Listening Filters

    • 8. HEART Listening

    • 9. Repetitive Cycles

    • 10. Attachment Theory and Adult Relationships

    • 11. Attachment - Early Imprints

    • 12. Attachment - Raw Spots

    • 13. Attachment - Couples Assessment

    • 14. Attachment Assurances

    • 15. Attachment - Relationship Traumas

    • 16. Relationship Breakthrough Process

    • 17. Feelings List (to use with Relationship Breakthrough Process + more)

    • 18. Universal Human Needs (to use with Relationship Breakthrough Process)

    • 19. Superpowered Apology

    • 20. Love Account

    • 21. Love Languages Quiz and Handout

    • 22. Friends First Cards

    • 23. Small, Medium, and Large Connecting Rituals

    • 24. Date Night Discovery Cards

    • 25. Strengths Based Relationship

    • 26. Superpowered Appreciation

    • 27. Curiosity Toss

    • 28. Essentials for Everyday Communication

    • 29. Creating a Safe Space for Emotional Connection

    • 30. Relationship Check-In

    • 31. Wants, Fears, + Loves (Exercise for Emotional Intimacy)

    • 32. Thought Turnarounds

    • 33. Magic And

    • 34. Wheel of Balance

    • 35. Calming Techniques

    • 36. Affairs - Building Trust

    • 37. Affair Responses - unfaithful partner

    • 38. Affair Responses - hurting partner

    • 39. Affairs - Why They Happen

    • 40. Sexuality - Rewriting Sexual Messages

    • 41. Sexuality - Libido Busters and Boosters

    • 42. Sexuality - Erotic Maps

    • 43. Sexuality - Menu of Possibilities

    • 44. Relationship Leaks

    • 45. Relationship Vision

    • 46. Time Management Matrix for Relationships

    • 47. Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor - Handouts for Whole Brain Living and Relationships

    • 48. Rebuilding Trust (for general betrayal)

    • 49. 5 Fears of Emotional Intimacy (assessment)

    • BIZ: Worksheet Checklist

    • BIZ: Client and Coach Agreements

    • BIZ: New Client Intake Form

    • BIZ: Client Notes

    • *NEWLY ADDED 2021 ~ Empathy Cards

    • *NEWLY ADDED 2021 ~ 6 Pillars of a Thriving Relationship

    • *NEWLY ADDED 2021 ~ Drama Triangle

    • *NEWLY ADDED 2021 ~ 7 Tips for Giving Feedback

    • * NEWLY ADDED 2021 ~ Another version of the Repetitive Cycles (practitioner uses page 5 and clients use pages 1-4)
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    Recorded Coaching Session Examples by Christine and Bret

    • Relationship Breakthrough Process (Kristin and Shayne with Christine)

    • Love Story, 5 Stages of a Thriving Relationship, Relationship Poisons, and Repetitive Cycle (Kristin and Shayne with Christine)

    • 5 Stages of a Thriving Relationship, Poisons, Needs, Wonder and Look Under (Dru and Seth with Bret)

    • Strengths Based Relationship (Kristin and Shayne with Christine)

    • Listening Filters (Seth and Dru with Bret)

    • Creating a Safe Space and Curiosity Toss (Phil and Lori with Christine)

    • Wants, Fears, + Loves exercise (with Bret)

    • Relationship Breakthrough Process (Seth and Dru with Bret)

    • Love Languages with Phil and Lori

    • 1st Session Example - Bret with Autumn and Brian
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    Cultural Sensitivities

    • Autistic Community - with Jake

    • Cultural Sensitivity- LGBTQA+ with Heather and Jake

    • Cultural Sensitivity- Polyamory with Willow
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    Special Considerations - Intimate Partner Violence, Addictions, and Narcissism

    • Intimate Partner Violence - Special Training with Bret, Licensed Clinical Social Worker

    • Intimate Partner Violence (slides)

    • Addictions - Special Training with Bret, Licensed Clinical Social Worker

    • Addictions (slides)

    • Personality Disorders - Special Training with Bret, Licensed Clinical Social Worker

    • Personality Disorders (slides)