Thriving Relationship Coach Certification
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Welcome! Here's an orientation to everything you will find in here.
Call Schedule and Zoom Link (Mondays and Thursdays)
Facebook Group Link
Book Reading Schedule
Submit Questions for Thursday Q & A Calls
Library of Resources
Video: How to Document Sessions for Graduation
Video: Creating an Electronic Client Intake Form
Week 1 - Training Replay
Week 1 Slides
Begin with Being Exercise
Homeplay - Week 1
Week 1 Love Quiz
Week 1 - Thursday Q + A Call Replay
Week 2 - Training Replay
Week 2 Slides - full size (option 1)
Week 2 Slides - room to write (option 2)
5 Stages of a Thriving Relationship
5 Stages of a Thriving Relationship - Notes for Coaches
Formula for Lasting Relationship Growth
Universal Human Needs
Relationship Poisons
Relationship Poisons - Notes for Coaches
Blame to Responsibility
Homeplay - Week 2
Week 2 Love Quiz
Week 2 - Thursday Q + A Call Replay
Week 3 Training Replay
Week 3 Slides - full size (option 1)
Week 3 Slides - room to write (option 2)
Listening Filters
HEART Listening
HEART Listening - Notes for Coaches
HEARTner Exercise
HEARTners for the Week
Homeplay - Week 3
Week 3 Love Quiz
Week 3 - Thursday Q + A Call Replay
Week 4 Training Replay
Week 4 Slides - full size (option 1)
Week 4 Slides - room to write (option 2)
Repetitive Cycles
HEARTner Exercise
HEARTners for the Week
Homeplay - Week 4
Week 4 - Love Quiz
Week 4 - Thursday Q + A Call Replay
Week 5 Replay
Week 5 Slides - full size (option 1)
Week 5 Slides - room to write (option 2)
Attachment Theory and Adult Relationships
Attachment - Early Imprints
Attachment - Raw Spots
Attachment - Couples Assessment
Attachment Assurances
HEARTners for the Week
HEARTner Exercise
Homeplay - Week 5
Week 5 - Love Quiz
Week 5 - Thursday Q + A Call Replay
Week 6 Training Replay
Week 6 Slides - full size (option 1)
Week 6 Slides - room to write (option 2)
IMPORTANT SURVEY to take this week
Attachment - Relationship Traumas
Relationship Breakthrough Process
Feelings List (to use with Relationship Breakthrough Process)
Universal Human Needs (to use with Relationship Breakthrough Process)
Homeplay - Week 6
Week 6 - Love Quiz
Week 7 Training Replay
Week 7 Slides - full size (option 1)
Week 7 Slides - room to write (option 2)
Week 7 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)
Superpowered Apology
Love Account
Love Languages Quiz and Handout
Week 7 Reflection (if you prefer answering here instead of on Facebook)
Week 7 Q + A Call Replay
Week 7 Love Quiz
Week 8 Training Replay
Week 8 Slides - full size (option 1)
Week 8 Slides - room to write (option 2)
Week 8 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)
Friends First Cards
Small, Medium, and Large Connecting Rituals
Date Night Discovery Cards
Strengths Based Relationship
Superpowered Appreciation
Week 8 Reflection Questions
Homeplay - Week 8
Week 8 Q + A Call Replay
Week 8 Love Quiz
Week 9 Training Replay
Week 9 Slides - full size (option 1)
Week 9 Slides - room to write (option 2)
Week 9 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)
Curiosity Toss
Essentials for Everyday Communication
Week 9 Reflection Questions
Homeplay - Week 9
Week 9 Q + A Call Replay
Week 9 Love Quiz
Week 10 Training Replay
Week 10 Slides - full size (option 1)
Week 10 Slides - room to write (option 2)
Week 10 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)
Feelings List
Creating a Safe Space for Emotional Connection
Wants, Fears, + Loves (Exercise for Emotional Intimacy)
Relationship Check-In
HEARTner Matches - Jan 25
HEARTner Exercise - Jan 25
Week 10 Reflection Questions
Homeplay - Week 10
Week 10 Q + A Replay
Week 10 Love Quiz
Week 11 Training Replay
Week 11 Slides - full size (option 1)
Week 11 Slides - room to write (option 2)
Week 11 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)
Thought Turnarounds
Magic And
HEARTner Matches - Feb 1
Week 11 Reflection Questions
HEARTner Exercise - Feb 1
Homeplay - Week 11
Week 11 Q + A Call Replay
Week 11 Love Quiz
Week 12 Training Replay
Week 12 Slides - full size (option 1)
Week 12 Slides - room to write (option 2)
Week 12 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)
Wheel of Balance
Calming Techniques
HEARTner Exercise - Feb 8
HEARTner Matches - Feb 8
Week 12 Reflection Questions
Homeplay - Week 12
Week 12 Q + A Call Replay
Week 12 Love Quiz
Week 13 Training Replay
Week 13 Slides - full size (option 1)
Week 13 Slides - room to write (option 2)
Week 13 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)
Affair Responses - unfaithful partner
Affair Responses - hurting partner
HEARTner Matches - Feb 15
HEARTner Exercise - Feb 15
Week 13 Reflection Questions
Homeplay - Week 13
Week 13 Love Quiz
Week 13 Q + A Call Replay
Week 14 Training Replay
Week 14 Slides - full size (option 1)
Week 14 Slides - room to write (option 2)
Week 14 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)
Affairs - Building Trust
Affairs - Why They Happen
HEARTner Matches - Feb 22
HEARTner Exercise - Feb 22
Week 14 Reflection Questions
Homeplay - Week 14
Week 14 Love Quiz
Week 14 Q + A Call Replay
Week 15 Training Replay
Week 15 Slides - full size (option 1)
Week 15 Slides - room to write (option 2)
Week 15 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)
Rewriting Sexual Messages
Libido Busters and Boosters
HEARTner Matches - March 1
HEARTner Exercise - March 1
Week 15 Reflection Questions
Homeplay - Week 15
Week 15 Love Quiz
Week 15 Q + A Replay
Week 16 Training Replay
Week 16 Slides - full size (option 1)
Week 16 Slides - room to write (option 2)
Week 16 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)
Sexuality - Erotic Maps
Sexuality - Menu of Possibilities
HEARTner Matches - March 8
HEARTner Exercise - March 8
Week 16 Reflection Questions
Homeplay - Week 16
Week 16 Love Quiz
Week 16 Q + A Call Replay
Week 17 Training Replay
Week 17 Slides - full size (option 1)
Week 17 Slides - room to write (option 2)
Week 17 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)
Relationship Leaks
Time Management Matrix for Relationships
Relationship Vision
Week 17 Reflection Questions
Homeplay - Week 17
HEARTner Matches - March 15
HEARTner Matches - March 22
HEARTner Exercise - March 22
Week 17 Love Quiz
Week 17 Q + A Call Replay
Week 18 Training Replay
Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor - Handouts for Whole Brain Living and Relationships
Week 18 Reflection Questions
HEARTner Matches - March 29
HEARTner Exercise - March 29
Homeplay - Week 18
Week 18 Love Quiz
Week 19 Training Replay
Week 19 Slides - full size (option 1)
Week 19 Slides - room to write (option 2)
Week 19 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)
Example: New Client Intake Form
Example: Electronic Client Intake Form
Example: Client and Coach Agreements
Example: Client Notes
Worksheet Checklist
Recorded Coaching Session Consent and Release Form
HEARTner Matches - April 5
HEARTner Exercise - April 5
Email/Social Media Post to Recruit Practice Couples
Homeplay - Week 19
Sample Email to Send New Virtual Clients
Week 19 Q + A Call Replay
Week 20 Training Replay - with Scott Oldford
HEARTner Matches - April 12
HEARTner Exercise - April 12
Homeplay - Week 20
Week 20 Q+A Call Replay
Week 21 Training Replay
Week 21 Slides - full size (option 1)
Week 21 Slides - room to write (option 2)
Week 21 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)
HEARTner Matches - April 19
HEARTner Exercise - April 19
Homeplay - Week 21
Week 21 Q + A Call Replay
Week 22 Training Replay
Week 22 Slides - full size (option 1)
Week 22 Slides - room to write (option 2)
Week 22 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)
HEARTner Matches - April 26
HEARTner Exercise - April 26
Homeplay - Week 22
Week 22 Q + A Call
Week 23 Training Replay
Week 23 Slides - full size (option 1)
Week 23 Slides - room to write (option 2)
Week 23 Slides - 2 slides/page (option 3)
Homeplay - Week 23
Week 23 Q + A Call
Weeks 24 - Q + A Call Replay
Week 25 Q + A Call Replay
Graduation Ceremony - Class of 2021!
1. Goals that Begin with Being
2. Stages of a Thriving Relationship
3. Formula for Lasting Relationship Growth
4. Blame to Responsibility
5. Relationship Poisons
6. Universal Human Needs
7. Listening Filters
8. HEART Listening
9. Repetitive Cycles
10. Attachment Theory and Adult Relationships
11. Attachment - Early Imprints
12. Attachment - Raw Spots
13. Attachment - Couples Assessment
14. Attachment Assurances
15. Attachment - Relationship Traumas
16. Relationship Breakthrough Process
17. Feelings List (to use with Relationship Breakthrough Process + more)
18. Universal Human Needs (to use with Relationship Breakthrough Process)
19. Superpowered Apology
20. Love Account
21. Love Languages Quiz and Handout
22. Friends First Cards
23. Small, Medium, and Large Connecting Rituals
24. Date Night Discovery Cards
25. Strengths Based Relationship
26. Superpowered Appreciation
27. Curiosity Toss
28. Essentials for Everyday Communication
29. Creating a Safe Space for Emotional Connection
30. Relationship Check-In
31. Wants, Fears, + Loves (Exercise for Emotional Intimacy)
32. Thought Turnarounds
33. Magic And
34. Wheel of Balance
35. Calming Techniques
36. Affairs - Building Trust
37. Affair Responses - unfaithful partner
38. Affair Responses - hurting partner
39. Affairs - Why They Happen
40. Sexuality - Rewriting Sexual Messages
41. Sexuality - Libido Busters and Boosters
42. Sexuality - Erotic Maps
43. Sexuality - Menu of Possibilities
44. Relationship Leaks
45. Relationship Vision
46. Time Management Matrix for Relationships
47. Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor - Handouts for Whole Brain Living and Relationships
48. Rebuilding Trust (for general betrayal)
49. 5 Fears of Emotional Intimacy (assessment)
BIZ: Worksheet Checklist
BIZ: Client and Coach Agreements
BIZ: New Client Intake Form
BIZ: Client Notes
*NEWLY ADDED 2021 ~ Empathy Cards
*NEWLY ADDED 2021 ~ 6 Pillars of a Thriving Relationship
*NEWLY ADDED 2021 ~ Drama Triangle
*NEWLY ADDED 2021 ~ 7 Tips for Giving Feedback
* NEWLY ADDED 2021 ~ Another version of the Repetitive Cycles (practitioner uses page 5 and clients use pages 1-4)
Relationship Breakthrough Process (Kristin and Shayne with Christine)
Love Story, 5 Stages of a Thriving Relationship, Relationship Poisons, and Repetitive Cycle (Kristin and Shayne with Christine)
5 Stages of a Thriving Relationship, Poisons, Needs, Wonder and Look Under (Dru and Seth with Bret)
Strengths Based Relationship (Kristin and Shayne with Christine)
Listening Filters (Seth and Dru with Bret)
Creating a Safe Space and Curiosity Toss (Phil and Lori with Christine)
Wants, Fears, + Loves exercise (with Bret)
Relationship Breakthrough Process (Seth and Dru with Bret)
Love Languages with Phil and Lori
1st Session Example - Bret with Autumn and Brian
Autistic Community - with Jake
Cultural Sensitivity- LGBTQA+ with Heather and Jake
Cultural Sensitivity- Polyamory with Willow
Intimate Partner Violence - Special Training with Bret, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
Intimate Partner Violence (slides)
Addictions - Special Training with Bret, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
Addictions (slides)
Personality Disorders - Special Training with Bret, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
Personality Disorders (slides)